Lies are a little fortress; inside them you can feel safe and powerful. Through your little fortress of lies you try to run your life and manipulate others. But the fortress needs walls, so you build some. These are the justifications for your lies. You know, like you are doing this to protect someone you […]
Are you a self care guru or a master of your own disaster? Do you have boundaries, or do you have a hard time telling people “no”? What’s your self care score? I created this fun, new quiz just for you! Take it today! And if you’re really brave, leave your results in the comments. Just […]
What if all these answers we’ve been given all our lives, in church, by our families, by well-meaning people, what if even SOME of them are wrong? What if we don’t have it all figured out? Then what? I am learning to find God in the questions. And in asking the questions, I’m finding myself, […]
I’m a romantic. I started writing poetry in kindergarten and never stopped. I’ve always loved a good “chick flick,” and I buy my wife flowers and candles partly because I like the way they look and smell, too. (Don’t tell her.) Who can forget the way Jack embraced Rose on the prow of the Titanic? […]
Self-care is giving yourself permission to be first for a little while. Join me for 3 reasons why your self-care matters.