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Grace: It’s All about Gas and Groceries

By Steve Austin | Best of Messy Grace

Apr 24

Have you ever lived paycheck-to-paycheck? Contrary to what anyone may have told you, an author has to sell an astronomical amount of books to ever make any money. My average month from book sales is around $35. I’d gladly show you the Amazon receipts. And I promise you, that pay doesn’t come close to balancing out the time I spend at the keyboard.
Grace: It's all about gas and groceries.

But I write because I love it. I write to connect with you. To spread the message of messy grace, to fight the stigma of mental illness in the church and society at-large, and to give people hope. Sure, I’d love my writing to actually pay my bills, but it hasn’t for the past 10 years, and yet I find myself right back here, in this seat, telling another story.

Last week, I checked my bank account and we were down to $26. That’s right. Twenty-six bucks to last a family of four a whole week. Sadly, that’s the place we find ourselves about one week out of every month. And we don’t live an extravagant life. Lindsey and I live in a 30-year-old, 2 bedroom townhouse, and both drive cars that are more than twenty years old. We don’t have any kind of lavish lifestyle. But we do have bills and student loans, and two little ragamuffins, whom we love with all our hearts.

It takes a lot of money to live these days.

I was stressed all weekend over the fact that we only had $26 to last us another week. I knew we’d have to choose again: gas or groceries? And then on Sunday I decided to check the PO Box. To my surprise, there was a check for $100 from someone I love.

It’s not a guarantee. It’s not an expectation. It’s not promised. But it has shown up regularly for several months now.

I breathed a sigh of relief. We could get some groceries and some gas. And I could give Lindsey a positive story, instead of confessing that the money had run out before the month….again.

I’ve been talking about heavy stuff lately. Theology and questions. Faith and doubts. I’ve been demanding answers from Jesus that I didn’t have the guts to utter 15 years ago. And I’m tired, friends. Dog tired. I’m tired of fighting. I’m tired of arguing. I’m tired of wrestling. I’m tired of wondering if I’m even “saved” any more.

Whatever that means.

Then again, $100 in my PO Box let’s me know I’m saved. Salvation comes for my family when I can feed my children and have enough money to get to work. I don’t know what the afterlife will be. I have no idea if the rapture is real or if Jesus is the only way to God. But my kids aren’t concerned with those things, as long as the crackers and apple juice don’t run out.

I think the same was true in Jesus’ day, too. Blind Bartimaeus didn’t care if Jesus was the Christ, or just a Rabbi with special powers. He just knew that one day, he was blind, and now he could see. The woman at the well didn’t sit with Jesus and debate the prophecies of Isaiah or get into a discussion over a pre, post, or mid-trib rapture. She just knew this man had told her everything she’d ever done wrong and was still compassionate enough to offer her Living Water.

These days, I don’t have all the answers. In fact, I am less certain about matters of faith today than I’ve ever been, but I’m still thankful for gas, groceries, and grace.


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Steve Austin is an author, speaker, and life coach who is passionate about helping overwhelmed people learn to catch their breath. He is the author of two Amazon bestsellers, "Catching Your Breath," and "From Pastor to a Psych Ward." Steve lives with his wife and two children in Birmingham, Alabama.

  • Mike Dean says:

    Thanks for sharing! Am glad for the provision!

  • BelleUnruh says:

    I remember when we usually ran out of money before the next payday. It’s tough. We rented and had old beaters my husband fixed himself We had to borrow money from my parents a lot of times, and later, they would borrow from us. Lol
    It can be discouraging, but God got us through. One year, I had no money for school clothes for my girls. I can’t remember how we ot through that! I did get a job as a janitor so I could be home with the girls before and after school. That was a blessing.

    I went grocery shopping yesterday and heads of lettuce were $4 and $5. My granddaughter’s apartment is $1,200 per month. She has to share it with 2 other people. It is getting harder and harder to live in this stupid world.

    Maybe it is good to be confused about God and salvation. At least you dont think you know everything! Now, THAT is a deadly place to be. Lol Just never give up, Steve. Keep searching and learning and being open to God’s leading. I’m 67 and I am learning each day. I still have so much to learn.

    • Steve Austin says:

      Ah, Belle! THANK YOU for sharing the power of “me too”. Sometimes all we need is that gentle nudge that says, “You are not alone”. I appreciate your encouragement and grace! <3 -Steve

  • womandreamer says:

    Hi Steve, thank you for sharing . I’m reading you all the way from Kenya. Grace to you and your family. He is indeed faithful. In matters of faith, no comment 🙂 . I’m at a point where ‘Jesus is real’ is enough for me, and that His grace is #Allseason.Keep sharing your stories.

    • Steve Austin says:

      Hello, my friend!
      Thanks so much for reading and responding! All the way from Kenya?! You win! 🙂

      I appreciate your encouragement and hope to hear from you again, soon!

      Grace and peace,
      Steve

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